The theories of my book:

Of diamonds and coal. What is staggering to me, as that I plod along on a deadline to finish my second book, by march 21, 2010 is that one of the key aspects are what I call the ten diamonds of life that I have learned. Well I am only up to number eight, but it seems like unbelievably they all hold together in a philosophy of life.

True to my roots, from Scranton, PA, which was an old coal mining areas, is that the theme of being in the coal mines, and having things turn to diamonds is getting very real. In other words, the last nearly fourteen years of unbeilevable hardship were the coal mines that I had to work to begin to produce the diamonds. It is really stunning for  me; I kind  of knew it all along, but the philosophy, approach, atttitude i have developed not only hangs together, but may well be able to truly help others and the world. Unbelievable. Time to get ready for another bus or two…

Craven raven and raging professor

My solace is to speak the truth as I see it, in an appropriate forum. If I could not speak my truth, to appropriately defend myself and my beloved children, than life would have so….. much less meaning.

In that regard, Sondra Gelb Myers who has this deep darkness inside of her, to systematically work to control me, and my children is truly a desperate and craven person. Really think about it everybody; this is a “mother” who must essentially eliminate her son, to pose herself as something to her grandchildren. That is unbelievably craven.  If her grandchildren love her son their own Father as they do; what possible good could be served by her craven actions that seek only to remove her own son, to embellish her own role. That is a craven sickenss to the point of evil!

AND you have David Nathan Myers whose over-arching rage from childhood mesmerizes a good part of this family; not to mention his relatively speaking false intelligence. It is clear in my mind, that a horrific impact was created by the intrusion of David Nathan Myers and his wife, in the summer of 1988, when they evidently “convinced” Morey and Sondra Myers of false things about me. I have never seen nor heard of a false intervention having such long-running impacts as this one.

Once again this gets at the genius I am bringing forth; revealing the impacts of certain issues and situations in “families,” and how they can have such long-running and staggering impacts. In general when a “family” makes a judgment about another it can have monumental impacts; when that judgment is in error it can be catastrophic, but for my ability to hang in there for decency for what is right for me, my children and society in general.

Margaret Carney then becomes a virtual puppet of these outrageous emotions and actions of David Nathan Myers and Sondra Gelb Myers, in essentially kowtowing to their anger and vindictiveness. In the short term, she prospectively elevates her standing with Sophie and Sam, but in the long-run, I believe she will substantially diminish, if not eliminate her “stature,’ because she ended up giving in to other people’s emotions and animosities and not what was truly in the best interest of Sophie and Sam.

The good news for me is…

I am starting to feel like my old self again. After more than twenty one and a half years of emotional abuse of the most sadistic ever, I am getting my groove back. While my critics mock me for going to get care on a few occasions, I respectfully submit, the the events I went through would have for all and intents and purposes broken if not destroyed a lesser man.

Your own parents, turning against you. Can you fathom the psychic and emotional shock, that is put on a person when out of the blue a group of people has met to declare you nuts for basically nothing that you have done. And then they ensue with nearly twenty two years of unfathomably vicious, malicious and sick legal, social and emotional actions. Wow, wowsie, wowsie, as my Grandpa used to say.

Now they attempt to pay lawyers to further the abuse and put gibberish down on paper, denying and denying the basic facts of this situation. Wow; I would not want to be in their shoes when this gets adjudicated. The things these lawyers say are so ghastly and pathetically inaccurate. Here I have made a science of studying this situation for more than twenty years; I can remember back nearly fifty years ago, to basic facts and realities of this situation, and they want to take me on in court.

I admit it took my getting used to certain things in court, but I have grown substantially less tolerant of these broadside attacks on my children, my mental health whatever. They call me crazy and they have initiated at least five or six acts of violence, never mind the rest of the insanity, and they call me crazy. Let alone, that I have never responded to any violent attack, nor certainly initiated one. If I were an attorney I would be supremely cautious about putting one more word of lies on paper about me and/or one more falsely disparaing comment trivializing the horrific suffering my two beloved children and I have gone through.

The terror will stop anon. The abuse will fall. The great redwood as Shakespeare says, will fall, anon.

Heres to you…watch?v=gIqLsGT2wbQ

A failure as a mother

So when all is said and done: The person most obsessed with the words success and failure; as if there was no sense of a relativity related to that two is a “failure” at the very thing very most important in life, her role as a parent. Sondra Gelb Myers is essentially a failure as a mother, and successes that have occurred in her children’s lives have come in spite of, not because of her, because Sondra Gelb Myers did so much to attempt to implant division and hatred in David Nathan Myers and me. With me, it was patently laughable; as I even with all the growing up I embraced, I never had a true bone of hatred or meanness in inside of me.

Sondra Gelb Myers took a failure’s agenda: Teaching hate and thankfully and woefully failed in transferring it to me. Maybe David will look to recent insights as a method to understand the true source of his hatred and rage, and confront those who need to be appropriately confronted, and leave innocent ones alone.

That rage and tension comes from Sondra Gelb Myers, which is interesting, because for all of the Myers’s rages and tensions, they also seemed to have a soft side, a compassionate side, and their rages seemed to come because of their own misudnerstandings about how to present themselves, rather than true hatred, although it did get out of hand mightily, in this situation.

Anyway, what I am suggesting, is that in their own quiet, understated way, the Gelb family had some true deviciness and hatred among them. But more what I am getting at is that Sondra Gelb Myers may be the true emotinal bomb thrower here, misusing and miscontruing her role with David Nathan Myers, with him as her tool.

The use of my ex-wife by Sondra Myers is easy to understand ,as one of the characterisitics of my ex-wife in superficial relationships is to basically just do whatever the other person wants; which leads the other person to  believe that she is “outstanding,” or something of the like. In true relationships, my ex-wife can be quite ornery, and even in this case, getting to perversely mean extremes to satisfy the urges of Sondra Gelb Myers and others. Remember the notion that Sondra Myers wanted a daughter and my ex-wife led almost all of her life, without the benefit of her own Mother. If you want Sondra Myers as a mother, in this day and age be careful what you wish for; a true mother would never irrationally turn against one of her own!

The sad reality is:

Sondra Gelb Myers kept in check for a while. She was in many ways, a reasonable Mother as a kid. She just lost it around 1988; I don’ t think she truly cares for Morey Myers, no wonder he is so enraged, and even if he told me differently, I would not be “convinced.” A “mother” who could in ghastly fashion chuck her first son under the bus, could do virtually anything to anybody.

All of her manuevers are calculated, and virtually by definition cause pain.  Sadly people like David Nathan Myers, Margaret Carney and others, follow her irresponsibly. Ciao, from 1000 Commonwealth Avenue, Newton, MA 02459; satellite location.

Here is a shocker:

Sondra Gelb Myers’s craven efforts to control my children and derive some pleasure from my life and my children’s life, that is inappropriate and crosses all bounds of decency, and in fact sadistic has its roots in things from virtually all of my life.

Let me explain: As I have said, in November, 1960 when David Nathan Myers was brought home from the hospital after birth; those days women would stay in for a week, Sondra Gelb Myers actually lied to me, that she had told me that I was going to have a brother. I remember as a two year old standing there with her, and she telling me: “I told you, you were going to have a brother;” when in fact, all she had told me was that she was going to the hospital. It seemed very strange at the time, that she was lying to me; although in retrospect I can see her pattern.

I believe ( a word Sondra Gelb Myers encouraged me to use) that Sondra Gelb Myers really wanted her second child to be a girl, for one, and that secondly she was never a healer or unifyer, and began to stoke seeds of rage and conflict within David Nathan Myers at a very young age. David Nathan Myers made a marked change in tone towards school and me, around fourth grade, when he was nine.

A desperate divider

It is my theory that Sondra Gelb Myers essentially began stoking this sense of antagonism towards me and anybody at a very young age. Sondra Gelb Myers’s method of control, began to be to keep people enraged and antagonism towards each other. What began in 1980, as David Nathan Myers’s rage towards Morey Mayer Myers, morphed during the 80’s under Sondra Gelb Myers’s tutelage into an irrational antagonisma nd hatred of Jon.

So in late 1989/early 1990 when I walked into a Gelb Foundation meeting, Beverly Gelb Klein singled me out for not wanting Jerry Klein to be manager of Gelb family funds, when I was the last person to have raised the concern. In all liklihood, Sondra Gelb Myers threw me under the bus to her “sister,” to have somebody to target.

The point is the craven interest on Sondra Gelb Myers’s part to manipulate and control my children is a function of a selfishness and desperate greediness on her part; that in the main aims to divide and conquer on her part, so as to establish some twisted hegemony for herself. Any sense of decency and common sense would say that pulling and manipulating other people’s children would deeply cause those children pain, but Sondra Gelb Myers does not care about that; as for the last nearly twenty years Sondra Gelb Myers’s fantasies of ruining and controlling other people’s lives have become her dominant characteristics.

Even her “closeness” with Margaret Carney may again resonate to her unrequieted desperate need to want a daughter, along with just controlling others.

Whose hair-brained idea was this anyway?

The unbelievable idea of let’s fight Jon in his family. You had David Nathan Myers with his rage, and his wife, prior to the events set forth in my Complaint, I am relatively certain coming forward with absolute certainty, of her ludicrous psychological theories, you had Morey and Sondra Meyrs driven by Gelb family greed, and the for toppers there was Peg Carney shrieking, “Jonaaathannnn is not good under pressure.”

And they went for it; they went for my throat, literally they could have killed me, and here is the topper they failed. For Sondra Gelb Myers a mother obsessed with the word, “success;” she went to essentially soul murder her son, and she failed! It’s raining me, hallelujah.

Geel what do you do, when you go to main and destroy another human being, and you fail? Where is Mr. big mouth Davie Nathan Myres now; I bet he is scratching the floor with this mouth. Maybe we are just getting started here. That bird-brained idea: “Let’s fight Jon.” No reason, no purpose, just for abuse sake; let’s fight Jon. Collectively we will all come to gether, and just pin him, and rage at him, spit at him, urinate on him, kick him whhen he is down. Guess what oh collective idiots, I am not down. I am up!

Gotta plan B? Oh well, gotta run now, or make that walk…

Yay…

watch?v=RBHZFYpQ6nc

My first Dan Quayle moment:

Today, I had occasion to play a terrific game of chess or two with my son Samuel. One game in particular was outstanding, the likes of which I had not played before. We went back and forth, sometimes I coach him and I forget whose pieces are whose. In any event, he made what appeared to be a great move, but I thought I noticed a glitch with it; I said:  ”great, but look, here, I can do this.”

Kind of like Dan Quayle, when he told that young person, P-o-t-a-t-o, very good, you just forgot the “E.” In the same way, I saw that if I responded to Samuel’s move, wth my move, I would have been open to a back rank checkmate. Fortunately, I can laugh at myself; according to at least one voice of wisdom, that is the tell-tale sign for maturity. Tomorrow could be terrific. Go celts.

One other thing:

The decision by David Nathan Myers and Nomi Maya Stolzenberg to intervene in my life, which to me occured prior to (emphasis added) “events set forth in my Complaint.” was a staggering decision in terms of my life,  my marriage and everything thereafter. 

Generally speaking when somebody intervenes, intrudes, interferes in your life, particularly in an inappropriate and misguided level, it can have staggering repercussions. That is the reason, we must have respect for people and situations, and how I ihave gained mine; as I have seen the unfathomable consequences of when people inappropriately interfere in other people’s lives.

To me, a decision to intervene that is false and inappropriate wreaks not just of horror, but of actual arrogance. Consistently arrogance is rated as the number one most unappealling human characteristic in polls. Well that seems to be it for now. Thank you.