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Quite a remarkable day

It seems like a lot of things are feeling like on some level, they are coming to fruition. Nothing massive as of yet; just a feeling and an ease of things and definitely some good results in certain areas. I am grateful I could work hard today, and for most of this week and the previous week. I went to the wall on a project; AND I was wondering, if I should keep on going at that pace. Fortunately, I believe I decided to slow down and catch up, and it seemed like a wonderful decision.

I had the notion in mind, of running through the finish line, and perhaps it was that kind of thing, on a small level, and even a greater scale. Time will tell. It is just a feeling of championship, after putting myself proverbially out on a limb. As the saying goes, because that is where the fruit is. So, living with uncertainty is a regular part of everything. Even in reaching our goals, perhaps nothing is finally done.

So enjoy the moment. Happy holidays.

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I am proud of a theme, I came up with: About changing our national psyche: Goodness is strength.

I just completed the vast portion of a project, AND concluded with a theme, about changing our national psyche. “Oddly” that phrase, seemed to encapsulate a lion’s share of my work over the course of more than twenty-two years, especially as I pointed towards the notion that “goodness is strength.” I had an amazing team of people come together around the completion of this particular task, which was a wonderful feeling unto itself.

That theme of changing the national psyche is at the core of my work. Our current psyche contains far too much crass, indifferent and pejorative notions within it. We are working with, and acting with the sense that retribution is strength, when indeed it is anything but. The reality and the theme that I am bringing forward is the notion that goodness is strength. My effort and potentially my contribution can be in the area of engendering a national shift in notion of our national psyche.  We must reject the negativity of today, as a representation of strength, point towards our basic goodness as our true strength!!

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No human being can be abused

It dawns on me, as my work continues; that one of the cornerstones of my life, is the notion that no human being should or can be abused. Abuse occurs, in many forms, and on some level is prevalent in our culture as a whole. We need an adjustment, a reworking of our national psyche, to truly understand that being cruel and mean to others, is not strength; indeed those types of behaviors are weaknesses, ultimately. So much of my life and work, stems from the notion of not wanting to see others abused in any way, be it physically, emotionally, legally, sexually or in any way.

Abuse, in its rawest sense, is about one human being perversely taking advantage of another; using hurtful and hateful tactics to act upon their own mental disturbances, and inflicting pain on others. I wish at times, that I could develop a metric for emotional abuse and emotional distress, to show to people, what is acceptable, and what is not; AND for that matter what abuse is: The opposite is creating a better world!

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The Science of Inner Strength

Quite a timeframe, for the old Science. Lots of work going on, behind the scenes. I am thankful that I can apply myself to this kind of work, so consistently, for so long. It has been quite a long road to hoe. In fact, this month, March 22 or so, will mark twenty-two years, since this journey came to me. It was for the most part, due to circumstances beyond my control; and indeed, a sense of divine destiny seems to have encapsulated my life. I won’t go into great detail, other to say, that essentially an event the magnitude of an emotional asteroid hit my life.

In many ways, the emotional repercussions of that emotional asteroid, extended for decades. It is hard for folks to understand in some ways that emotional repercussions of things can extend so long. Such too, is the influence of those with personality disorders, extreme narcissism, borderline, and psychopathic; with respect to how much they can influence people and situations, for extremely long periods of time. I have a sense of destiny to discover such things.

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