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Not giving up; faith in the future and present prevails

admin — Fri, 14 Jun 2019 16:55:04 +0000

The World's Best Mediator, Jon Myers

The beat goes on, with love, Jon

admin — Thu, 06 Jun 2019 17:11:53 +0000

Jon Myers, The World's very best, lol, Mediator

Made some progress today

admin — Wed, 22 May 2019 20:44:50 +0000

Well, something I have been working on for a while, I completed a couple of stages today. It is that feeling, when you complete something, even a stage of joy and a tad of sadness, for all the effort and stuff. So, I suppose it may be important to celebrate in some way, or just enjoy the day. I don’t know everything, but I know my overall story is one of epic, if not Biblical proportions. People will still try to take me down; but the momentum is in place. The work is done; the result is in the bag, so to speak.

That is the optimistic me; even “realistic” based on knowing the amount of work that went into it. Everything; I believe I am a great judge of relative human experiences, and in its own unusual way, mine takes the cake. I am not bragging; as they say, it is not bragging when you can back it up. So day goes into the bank, as crossing couple of milestones, and let’s just leave it at that. Thanks, Jon

May 2, 2019: Madison Avenue, Newton, MA

admin — Thu, 02 May 2019 15:53:12 +0000

The World

admin — Tue, 30 Apr 2019 15:14:06 +0000

Jon Myers, The World's Best Mediator

What a wonderful day, in the neighborhood(s)

admin — Tue, 02 Apr 2019 15:40:39 +0000

The World's Best Mediator, Jon Myers

Patience and perseverance

admin — Tue, 19 Mar 2019 14:17:55 +0000

March 18, 2019: A wonderful day in Newton, MA

admin — Mon, 18 Mar 2019 16:39:32 +0000

A wonderful day for pierogies

admin — Tue, 05 Mar 2019 21:47:11 +0000

Pierogies are dough flavored pockets of potatoes; a treat from my Northeastern Pennsylvania roots, with a Polish emphasis. In many years gone by, the pierogies I had on rare occasions, were homemade by a faithful near family member. These pierogies are store bought, and for some reason really hit the spot. It is kind of like a pierogie type of day. If you have not had a pierogie, pan-fried with butter or oil, and sometimes with onion, I suppose; I heartily recommend a pierogie for you, if that is at all you type of thing.

Sometimes, we must drift with the pierogie type of day; at least part of it, as it has been twenty-three years here, and some quietness and patience are well in order. Patience builds confidence; as our actions are less consumed, with acting and reacting every moment, and allowing the fill of all of those years of effort add up. That is what these pierogies mean to me today, and for that I am ever thankful. Winter is hanging on, which is good for warm coats.

A breakthough in understanding emotional abuse: The element of emotional parasitism

admin — Wed, 06 Feb 2019 18:43:28 +0000

God only knows, why I was called for some tasks. It seems like the most grimy on some level, is understanding the element of emotional abuse. One breakthrough concept I came in touch with today on a deeper level; is the facet of parasitic behavior. The emotional abuser in many ways, attaches themselves to another human being, by creating a relationship or conflict, really of their own doing. The mainly innocent person then, finds themselves virtually or even literally trapped in the situation. You know the adage of: “Don’t wrestle with a pig in the mud, because you will get dirty and the pig loves it.” Except sometimes, with respect to emotional abuse it is not so easy to get away. The very things, we rightfully cherish the most, relating to home, children, finances, are being eerily attacked, and we are being made to be an equal or worse combatant in the situation.

Such a thing can be enormously exasperating and painful. The identification of this parasitic like behavior is crucial to a healthy society, because we deserve reason. Thanks.