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The World's Best Mediator, Jon Myers

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Trusting the universe; and I made a decision:

Well, I made a decision the other day, and today I confirmed it. I am not even certain it was the right decision, but I will trust the universe; plus I am just proud I made an adult decision. The decision paves the way to deeply commit to the World’s Best Mediator concept. It truly was fascinating today; I was talking to a friend, who without my bringing it up truly understood the essence of my work. He was talking about the concept of societal change and in the course of the conversation we discussed Cassandra, Mandela, Gandhi, and Nietzsche among others. My friend understood what I was up against, but the again truly understood the simplicity of what I propose.

The simplifies to do with, what my friend recognized as something the man on the street could understand. That reminds me, the tipping point in affirming my decision is that I would prefer to talk about inner strength, rather than psychological abuse.The essence of Calm Interventions programs is finding your inner strength AND expressing that strength appropriately. Thank you.

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Oh Henry, I had to celebrate tonight:

Today, a nice young woman named Ata sat down near mr with a one year old boy named Henry. they started playing with one of those blocks and beads things, where you move them along wire rails. hyenry was looking at me often. He had big eyes like I did when I was a kid.

Anyway, Henry was moving blocks and beads and I picked up on the colors. I started talking to Henry saying :”yellow, yellow.” Sure enough within fifteen seconds Henry said part of is first word: ello. I realized for real that as good as I am as a mediator, I am even better as a Father. I truly have a knack with the little ones! In the :oddest” way it reaffirmed years and years of actions on my part. I got swept away and went out to celebrate a tad this evening. Oh Henry.

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A major reversal in thought AND decision:

I must say it was somewhat magical. I really did not anticipate changing my mind like this, but I truly decided for now that the off-white cream colored sport jacket is a huge winner, outstanding even. The thing also is that if you can pull it off; there are so many colors you can wear underneath a light-colored sports jacket. I needed a distinguishing jacket, at a terrific sales price BTW, AND I am kind of becoming like a white knight anyway. So voila, as my friend Simon will consider making non-sweet crepes at his little shop.

I did not think I could take another step at points today, but in letting go a tad, magic began to happen. Not that it was planned, that way, but the moment the Massachusetts law enforcement let go last Friday, fifteen minutes later they got a call about the whereabouts of suspect number two. So there is magic in the universe, along the lines of the 6 x $ 600/hour Calm Interventions Assessment. It seems like a happy and productive day as days go. Thanks.

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Tsk, tsk, haste makes waste, and all of that:

Back in the saddle, I am reminded of an old adage: “The greater someone’s velocity, the less their validity.” So I will just lions, and tigers and bears it along for the moment, not to dally, but then again, you cannot put lipstick on a pig, and call it a swan! Wow, that is a ton of animal references; we can learn much from nature and animal kingdom

Thank you.

Sincerely,

Jon 

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Go West young man: Boy did I make a great MISTAKE:

Yesterday, when I dismissed going to a new town, in order to distribute brochures, I was in error. Today, I headed west right into a local police station for a relatively extensive screening, in order to get a Solicitor’s permit and it went very well. Even got a haircut along the way; and now the fruits of the labors. I sit at an actual bagel cafe with a seven grain, with veggie cream cheese, and a dark roast coffee. It does not seem to get a whole better. I did forget my glasses, so I have done a tonf or navigating without them, and it seemed to go great.

I am working on following my intuition more, so who knows what that means for the future; it seemede kind of necessary to consider a new town; as my goal is to spread Calm Interventions around the world. I could walk across this country with my brochures, but I belive in the main, my personal Everest already appeared and is probably conquered.. So let’s see what intuition brings next. Thankful for it ALL.

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An outstanding start to the day: Brochure heaven:

After first touching base with the Newton Police, given the sensitivities of our time, I was able to resume brochure distribution this morning. While having a profound sense of mourning for those families and people affected by death, injury, trauma or loss by the horrific events at the Marathon, in some ways the best way for me to express my other views is to continue my work as The World’s Best Mediator, particularly with the philosophy of “Turning hard times into better times;” which in great measure is predicated on the notion of good overcoming evil.

Thus, I returned to an area where there had been a wrinkle or two in brochure distribution and had a relatively “outstanding” outing. For a reward I get to have a healthy smoothie and even a bagel at my friend Jean’s confines. I sincerely do not know who invented bagels, but they clearly are one of the best tasting foods, with cream cheese, you could ever find. So that is the start of the day, and I may get to my book today. Ciao.

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a most basic betrayal of the meaning of life: Alienation AND other roles of parenting:

one of the deepest and most reprehensible actions in society is the betrayal from a parent to a child. A parent who would harm a child due to their own narcissism or borderline personallity disorder is in another category with regard to the ill and dishonor they bring to society. Parental Alienation is one form of child abuse, where an extremely emotionally unstable person puts their own hateful needs before that of a child and attempts to brainwash the child or children against the other parent.

Believe it or not I have come across another equally or worse form of parental betrayal where narcissistic or even psychopathic parents turn against adult children essentially because they are so unable to handle the growth of their children or their children’s success; so desperate are those parents to be the center of attention and ALL of that. “Parents” who irrationally or hatefully turn against their own children at any stage in their lives are really committing the ultimate societal sin in a way; turning against the very decency and foundation of society. Jon

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A new day offering new joy, new spirit, new promise:

Yes I am thankful for today. Yesterday is gone; today is here. I must say I am extremely thankful for my Kindle Fire. AND the versatility of its services; I almost let it go but it is still here at the moment. Well I have a thing or two to do today, before writing those notes and doing those brochures as envisioned now. Thank you for reading. Sincerely, Jon

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Thank you Upper Falls AND The Spirtit of Cooperation

Old Upper Falls was there today just mailing a simple letter, a great conversation in the line there about the spirit of mediation and cooperation. The more one sees of the legal process the more in some ways it is like putting a size. 2 shoe on a size 12 foot. The conversation at the Post Office the man L. said: “Reaching a resolution is the best feeling in the world.” In a way it is such a high to actually work with others; respect them, reach an understanding.

This is truly my goal to spread the benefits of mediation and positive communication around the world. It is so positive when people relinquish stuck views tor an ease and comfort AND actual interest in working together. The man at the Post Office me tiinsd the hockey strike. It is so true that people lose the bigger picture and look for their petty or crass victories. Don’t get me wrong; there are such a thing as true victories, but those things are earned and serve some genuine, if not noble purpose. Thank you.

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