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Societal good; it is about societal good baby:

The more I go through; the more I get cleansed by ALL of what life has to offer me; the stronger and purer I get. In that regard, I uphold the sense that it is about societal good. The capacity to heal and help the world; si where my life and work take hold. It is fun, to glide through life with a sense that there is something significant that we are offering. Don’t get me wrong; it has taken me monumental epochs of challenge, if not pain itself, to reach the point of gliding at times.

That is where the Science of Inner Strength comes in. It is finding your true self, and then developing that core purpose that can essentially pull you through virtually anything. To those who do not agree, on some level, I send compassion. I came back to my notion of firm forgiveness today, and how setting firm limits first, for those who act, and then leaning back with a sense of forgiveness and compassion can be an excellent course to go. Time for lunch.

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It has been a while, little blog, whew

So this week, I made major strides in getting the mailing that I am working on to fruition. The design and writing process, “oddly” took even months, and now it is getting to the point of mailing. What  a piece of work it was; and I am in the main happy about it. There was a twist and turn, even in working on the process of mailing, which came as a tad of a surprise. Yet those venerable tools of patience and perseverance, along with trusting helped to iron out that wrinkle so it seems.

Also, given that the essence of that mailing has to do with the Science of Inner Strength Honor, I offered the first two slots other than me; to some folks who I felt could use it, out of a sense of love. So that was another very positive step as well. It has surely been a process of twenty-one years, and perhaps now, I can take a step back and admire the effort, before moving on to the next stages. We shall see. Thank you.

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A “fascinating” little run here, like the NCAA’s I suppose, lol

Yes, in developing The Science of Inner Strength, I have worked on a most vexing situation. The last few days, it seems to have taken a rather “fascinating” turn. The general principle is understanding human behavior in the context of conflict; especially if and when extreme narcissistic or even psychopathic behavior is in play. This is the new psychology as I reference, the capacity to understand human behavior in this day and age, when we are unduly affected by those with these type of narcissistic personality disorders.

I do not know everything, but I know that my work and my science is a major advancement in these areas. To really understand what is going on in the culture requires an understanding of these most challenging of personality types AND accompanying behavior. Accompanying these notions are how easily people can be confused and or misled, especially with the overall confusion level generated by these types of personalities and their behaviors. I seem to have penetrated below the surface of a group behavioral pattern , in the effort to find the aberrational source.

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It seems like a wonderful stretch for the Calm Interventions model

January, 2017, as I may have alluded had some real challenges. As is so fitting for the Calm Interventions approach, such a period in hindsight is ultimately a learning and strengthening process, when handled in the proper way. Sometimes challenges can stretch us more than we can fathom, and during those times, we are feeling it, and throwing off some flack, as need be. Still the important thing is that we do not give up on our aims, dreams and goals. That is once again the value of the Science of Inner Strength is that it provides one with an appropriate passion and ideal to carry with one. Having identified your core being, really allows you to weather virtually any storm.

It is the work of Calm Interventions and The Science of Inner Strength Honor to help you identify that core essence of who you are, so that you can shine in the proper light, and feel like a champion wherever you go, and irrespective of the situation. We are working on a specific science of inner strength logo. Thank you.

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What a day, what a year; what a twenty one years, lol

Yes, it is has been a rather unfathomable run, in the development of the life and work of The World’s Best Mediator. To the degree that Sir Isaac Newton demonstrated that “every action has an equal and opposite reaction;” it has been a rather astonishing real life version of turning lemons into lemonade, with ALL due respect in amazing fashion. Today, I seemed to stumble into a culminating piece of the past twenty plus years of work, and sent out a communication along those lines.

I am enormously grateful that God, people and life have supported me in this journey. Ah, now I recall the word that I wanted to use with respect to equal and opposite is “indescribable.” A loved one, once wrote about some indescribable circumstances as they pertain to our challenges; AND the equal and opposite journey in response was fully “indescribable” as well. Today, I can fully make that statement of the nature of the journey. I am glad that larger influences have blessed me with the responsibility of this journey. Thank you one and all.

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Kind of an amazing kind of day; with peace and love to others

Wow, so much collective energy goes into Christmas AND the holidays. We ALL collectively made it through that one, except RIP those who did not, ala George Michael. Still, I must say it was an amazing time period for me. I seemed to have come to an enhanced notion of the work that is inspiring; at a time, when I felt like there was a great weight upon me. You know the expression: “It is darkest before dawn;”  and that kind of thing, or mostly the sense too, of one of my wall sayings: “Your hardest times will produce your greatest moments. So don’t worry and trust that God has you.” Something like that. So today, I feel like I have burrowed underground for a long time and I am seeing the light of day, which feels wonderful. I just feel like eating good food, as well, lol. Faith, humanity, the wonderful words, of the direction that everything must keep going in. That is my life; that is my work. World, find our goodness!

Jon Myers, The World's Best Mediator

Jon Myers, The World's Best Mediator

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A wonderful victory today for Calm Interventions methods

I received a copy today of a letter endorsed by twenty-two out of twenty-four local officials in my local community today. This was a wonderful affirmation of a specific mediation project, as well as Calm Interventions methods on a higher level, as it seemed to take on virtually an entire community to help produce a positive resolution. This was an amazing result on some level; and reflected one of my most intense efforts to date; as the stakes seemed high, and it was virtually a final proving ground of Calm Interventions methods; or at least shall we say an “awesome” opportunity; to use a word of one of my loved ones today.

So, I really would love to thank the world for your collective patience with me, as I have sought to return with perseverance to you. What a truly remarkable process. There seems to be another obstacle or something of the moment; who really knows, I cannot predict the future. I was able through this process to articulate my vision, philosophy and commitment on a broader community basis.

Amen.

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A stroke of genius today: Patience and perseverance and then some: Lol

Wow, I have been kind of working on this signature type of case; following AND developing the Science of Inner Strength protocols and today I feel like I reached an amazing breakthrough in understanding. The breakthrough has to do with an entire area of human behavior, and how even within, perhaps especially within families unhealthy relationships can develop. It is really challenging the human condition, as we as a species have been through so much and people are struggling in some ways, with abuse issues, drug issues, alcohol issues and more. We must begin posing the way to a healthier society, and I mean emotionally healthier, as well economically healthier for a broader spectrum of people.

The area I had a breakthrough in today, had to do with, how people who are not feeling emotionally whole themselves essentially attach themselves to other people and virtually feel like an attachment to another person’s life. Wow, it was a stunning process of research and development on this one. I am grateful that I could stay with this scenario, for so long. Thanks.

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Everest, Everest, Everest:

It is said that each man or woman, has their Everest to climb. I suppose on some level, mine is the capability to bring harmony and clarity, out of an “outstanding” “mess.” Lord only knows the effort involved, and that really is the key; in a spiritual sense, none of us are really given more to put on our shoulders than we can handle. Well, lol; I have been tested to the peak of the peak, AND still ticking. My grandfather, the late beloved Samuel Z. Myers on a couple of occasions gave me Timex watches as a boy. You know the old Timex expression: “Takes a licking and keeps on ticking.”

So today, yes, my heart, my soul and my brain are ticking with purpose, with the resonance of helping others and serving the world. The Everest of my challenging scenario is here on some level. I thought it might have peaked with the notion of forgiveness; and yet today, it went beyond that. Hey, what can I do, I just work here? Take your time everybody. Yours, Jon

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