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A cool day, in spite of the heat, lol

Today, was pretty cool. I put some finishing touches on some work that I have been savoring. I enjoy the process of production, even down to the nitty gritty details. Yes, it seemed like a happy day at that. In fact, finishing this phase of a project, just swooped on up to me. I was not really planning on it; at the moment. It was kind of like a divine inspiration, seemed to grab me, and onto it, I was. I was kind of amazed, as I have been working hard, and did not outwardly seem to have the energy to nail this today. AND then, there’s God, as the saying would go.

So off I went, and it was pure grit, I suppose, as it was hot; and as I say, perhaps I have been working too hard. Still in retrospect; it was like a breeze, in completing a number of the tasks that beckoned. One intense critic, used the phrase “happy and productive.” There is little or no doubt that I was in a happy and productive zone.

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No matter, which way he is pointing, still the best, lol

The World's Best Mediator, Jon Myers

The World's Best Mediator

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A miraculous set of connections, yay

Just some little stuff to do today; AND the universe seemed to be cooperating in wonderful style. I am grateful, for the momentum that seemed to be behind my back today. In the midst, I came to a wonderful line as well, about a mediation scenario that has challenged me for quite some time. This could be a breakthrough in the old Calm Interventions techniques, as the crucial factor entails finding the roots of the conflict.

Once the roots of conflict are discovered then a couple of things can happen: 1) Everyone else who is feeding into the energy of the leader can be aware of it, and presumably stop; 2) A picture and/or a better version of the situation can arise to replace the highly conflictual one. True to Science of Inner Strength tenets, most people do not inherently want to be at conflict. There are personality types that crave and seek out conflict; but most people would rather live at peace, given the opportunity.

This weekend can be significant, with respect to how solid this understanding is on my part.

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I have encountered evil

As I reflect I feel the great value of my story and my life is that I have actually encountered evil; and not only not been defeated by it, but bring forward an amazing message due to that encounter. I will say I saw a quote recently that “people are not evil; systems are.” So I will not necessarily lay that heavy rap on any one person. Things happen, and it has to do with people making faulty choices, perhaps small ones one after another; and then it can be the combined energy mixed with others that create an evil dynamic. I must say, I only using evil to describe the most “indescribable.”

The thing about evil, is that it can become very confusing for those innocents who run into it; because a certain iteration of evil entails it posing as good and reasonable. People must be very strong in order to resist evil. People can be gullible and persuaded by things. So it has taken me unbelievable preparation and divine inspiration to realize that I have encountered evil.

Onward!

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I feel wonderful about that one…

Yes, today, I prepared and submitted an Assessment that seems a long time in coming. The Assessment seems a “remarkable” testament to resilience, AND perhaps gotten in, just in the nick of time. One never knows in this day and age. I was guided by higher influences it seems; so I am thankful that I could sustain so long, and in turtle like fashion edge out the rabbit by a nose. So for now, I believe I will breath a sigh or two of relief and great feeling and let it be for a tad. Sometimes it just the doing of something that brings you that great feeling. You cannot really control the outcome; and I have been dealing with seemingly super-human forces for a long time, with respect to how mightily they challenged me.

That is what the Science of Inner Strength is all about. It is having that inner resilience and commitment to overcoming all obstacles. It would be an Honor shall we say to work with you. Call the dedicated line and leave a confidential message. Thanks. 617-916-1858.

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Progress is being made, yippee

Check out www.theworldsbestmediator.com

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It has been a while, little blog, whew

So this week, I made major strides in getting the mailing that I am working on to fruition. The design and writing process, “oddly” took even months, and now it is getting to the point of mailing. What  a piece of work it was; and I am in the main happy about it. There was a twist and turn, even in working on the process of mailing, which came as a tad of a surprise. Yet those venerable tools of patience and perseverance, along with trusting helped to iron out that wrinkle so it seems.

Also, given that the essence of that mailing has to do with the Science of Inner Strength Honor, I offered the first two slots other than me; to some folks who I felt could use it, out of a sense of love. So that was another very positive step as well. It has surely been a process of twenty-one years, and perhaps now, I can take a step back and admire the effort, before moving on to the next stages. We shall see. Thank you.

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The week that was

Wow, what a week. I made a wonderful progress on a letter that I am writing for broad circulation pertaining to the Science of Inner Strength. Then in a ground-breaking mediation situation, I seemed to have made a breakthrough as we speak, or I write as we shall say. It is has been a time of enormous challenge/opportunity for the Science of Inner Strength, the World’s  Best Mediator and the whole nine yards. For some reason, I have really been given a sacred mission to fight unfathomable not right forces. That is my real proving ground.

In certain things in life, it is not for me to question, but just to step up to the plate and take on what is required of me. It is a remarkable story and true trail of events. I must smile a bit; as I was a relatively ordinary fellow, as I like to say AND then lightening struck more than twenty-one years ago. I guess, I am on the right track with a letter that I have drafted. Phew, time for a break.

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Explorations in human behavior: The Science continues: Gently Into the realms of Narcissistic behavior

It is a moment to reflect on the work that has been done, specifically in developing further understandings pertaining to narcissistic, even psychopathic behavior. The Science of Inner Strength has its jumping off point, its pushing back point from those elements of that very extreme behavior. Narcissistic mentalities AND behaviors entail essentially a very limited perspective on the world, rather one dimensional. It is almost like a door into a dark room that is not fully open.

The question among others that I am researching is essentially can a narcissist be reached in any meaningful kind of way? Is there are way to penetrate through the veneer and walls of that narrow perspective to reach a person at a point of empathy? My theory is that every human being has needs; every human being has a point from which they can and must be reached. It takes an incredibly patient amount of gently working with and attempting to break down that nihilistic narrow viewpoint.

I am not certain that it can be done. It would be groundbreaking to do so.

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Having taken on evil and emerged the better

That may be the calling card of my life. It seems on some level, I was called to actually take on societal evil, AND look it square in the eye. There is nothing in the world like battling true evil; I do not know everything, but I know that that is true. Evil will attempt to fold, spindle and mutilate reason, logic and decency.

It is true that I emerged much the better for that twenty one year process, not only alive to tell the story, but with an agenda to help the world as well. There are very few people, who could really go through the process that I did. It is truly a special badge of honor to have battled on that core level, and be positioned to deliver something of societal good. I am grateful for that entire process, as truly challenging at it was.

While parts of society do not want to hear the “evil” word; I feel like it is my responsibility to say that it exists, to define it, and develop remedies. Thanks, Jon

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