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Saw an eagle this morning

What a wonderful day so far. Discovered a nature area near home; and even ran across an Eagle. I first caught a glimpse of it, off of the water; and then I spoke with a new friend Kyle, who pointed out to me that the Eagle was sitting in a tree across the water. That was pretty sterling, being so close to the city and seeing an eagle!

Such moments are very refreshing in terms, of life itself, before I suppose getting to the work. It is great to remember that life does exist, aside from the work as well. Such moments, have been kind of rare for me; and I actually believe now that I think about it, it will be wonderful to meld in more of the real life. I saw an affirmation from the late Louise Hay this morning, which encouraged me towards nature, and the magic was truly there. Well, let’s see what the next part of the day reveals; as I have some writing to do, possibly, although the notion of enjoyment is great too.

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Being thankful for what we have: It is great to remember: April 20, 2018

It is a lot of work, and a lot of non-work, to just be present in the moment, being thankful for what  I have, we have, all of us collectively have. Having so much of my life and work, being based in inducing positive change; one most be careful and conscious to appreciate that which we have. It is also essential to understand the process of human change is a challenging and even slow one at times.

Fear is underneath a lot of our resistance and that kind of thing; all of us, in one way or another cling to some of the things we have and do; even if at times, we would better to let go a tad, at least most of us, lol. Ah the nature of human existence. Being grateful is an act of confidence, if not victory itself. Appreciation can bring us to another level, and in essence declare that we are not acting with fear. I am thankful for my life; just as it is, in this moment. Wow, that feeling is “indescribable.” Jon

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Please help turn my amazing life story, into a movie, books, film, video and more.

You can leave a message at 617-916-1858 or fill out the contact form on this site. Thanks, Jon

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Quite a remarkable day

It seems like a lot of things are feeling like on some level, they are coming to fruition. Nothing massive as of yet; just a feeling and an ease of things and definitely some good results in certain areas. I am grateful I could work hard today, and for most of this week and the previous week. I went to the wall on a project; AND I was wondering, if I should keep on going at that pace. Fortunately, I believe I decided to slow down and catch up, and it seemed like a wonderful decision.

I had the notion in mind, of running through the finish line, and perhaps it was that kind of thing, on a small level, and even a greater scale. Time will tell. It is just a feeling of championship, after putting myself proverbially out on a limb. As the saying goes, because that is where the fruit is. So, living with uncertainty is a regular part of everything. Even in reaching our goals, perhaps nothing is finally done.

So enjoy the moment. Happy holidays.

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I am proud of a theme, I came up with: About changing our national psyche: Goodness is strength.

I just completed the vast portion of a project, AND concluded with a theme, about changing our national psyche. “Oddly” that phrase, seemed to encapsulate a lion’s share of my work over the course of more than twenty-two years, especially as I pointed towards the notion that “goodness is strength.” I had an amazing team of people come together around the completion of this particular task, which was a wonderful feeling unto itself.

That theme of changing the national psyche is at the core of my work. Our current psyche contains far too much crass, indifferent and pejorative notions within it. We are working with, and acting with the sense that retribution is strength, when indeed it is anything but. The reality and the theme that I am bringing forward is the notion that goodness is strength. My effort and potentially my contribution can be in the area of engendering a national shift in notion of our national psyche.  We must reject the negativity of today, as a representation of strength, point towards our basic goodness as our true strength!!

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No human being can be abused

It dawns on me, as my work continues; that one of the cornerstones of my life, is the notion that no human being should or can be abused. Abuse occurs, in many forms, and on some level is prevalent in our culture as a whole. We need an adjustment, a reworking of our national psyche, to truly understand that being cruel and mean to others, is not strength; indeed those types of behaviors are weaknesses, ultimately. So much of my life and work, stems from the notion of not wanting to see others abused in any way, be it physically, emotionally, legally, sexually or in any way.

Abuse, in its rawest sense, is about one human being perversely taking advantage of another; using hurtful and hateful tactics to act upon their own mental disturbances, and inflicting pain on others. I wish at times, that I could develop a metric for emotional abuse and emotional distress, to show to people, what is acceptable, and what is not; AND for that matter what abuse is: The opposite is creating a better world!

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The Science of Inner Strength

Quite a timeframe, for the old Science. Lots of work going on, behind the scenes. I am thankful that I can apply myself to this kind of work, so consistently, for so long. It has been quite a long road to hoe. In fact, this month, March 22 or so, will mark twenty-two years, since this journey came to me. It was for the most part, due to circumstances beyond my control; and indeed, a sense of divine destiny seems to have encapsulated my life. I won’t go into great detail, other to say, that essentially an event the magnitude of an emotional asteroid hit my life.

In many ways, the emotional repercussions of that emotional asteroid, extended for decades. It is hard for folks to understand in some ways that emotional repercussions of things can extend so long. Such too, is the influence of those with personality disorders, extreme narcissism, borderline, and psychopathic; with respect to how much they can influence people and situations, for extremely long periods of time. I have a sense of destiny to discover such things.

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Learning to stand appropriately for what we believe: The challenge of our times: Thanks!

More and more a central theme of my life and work, had to do with standing for the things I believe in an appropriate sense AND helping others to do so as well. I believe it is the calling of our times, to find that inner strength, to bring it forth, and to communicate it, in an appropriate fashion. We live in times, where change is needed, and our institutions are loathe to give up control. Change must come from those who understand its need, speak from authenticity and learn appropriate means of expression: No easy task as a three step process. The Science of Inner Strength helps people on ALL three levels.

Most of us, have that true strength within us; that is so covered over by society, as the current powers that be, do not love those who can speak their minds. So finding that inner strength is the first step; often something that we did not know that we have. Then it is a matter of getting used to it, and then articulating it well. Thanks everyone.

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Building the vision: One brick at time, lol

I am reminded of a quote from David Brinkley, the somewhat legendary former newscaster, who is quoted along the lines: “The key is to build a foundation from the bricks that are thrown at you.” I saw a similar one recently, something about building an empire from the stuff thrown at you or something. Anyway, you get the picture. I am feeling anchored in the vision these days. It feels like it is wrapping around me nicely in some ways. There is still  more to do; there almost always is. The key is maintaining a positive attitude AND that sense of compassionate genius.

The development of The Science of Inner Strength is a piece of work, and the exhilarating part has to do with developing the science itself. In some ways, The Science begins with pinpointing those aberrant behaviors occurring in society, and then pulling out from that the facets that we do not want most people to do. It is about kindness, and determination and the common good. I am a wonderful conversation with a prospective business colleague today.

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Making History:

A Wonderful day, to reflect a tad. It seems that my recent work has brought me closer to the sense of making history with my work. At issue is, for one, the issue of emotional abuse and people treating people other cruelly. Indeed, I have actually seen evil, a most challenging entity to confront. I am not daunted. I believe that I have a divine destiny, with my life and work.

The areas that this work can begin to take further root, have to do with challenging emotional abuse, and instilling its equal and opposite, which is decency. Also, there is the opportunity to challenge our very court system, particularly in the area of divorce and family law. People would be aghast, if they knew more broadly, how inappropriately our court system can function, especially when it comes to our very children.

I have been given this legacy, this voice, this opportunity to make these points, and as I need be, I will meet them head on. I must be fearless, and trust in my mission. Happy holiday, love, Jon

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