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On some level, I want to change the national tenor

Along with the Science of Inner Strength and all of that, part of me really wants to change our national discourse and dialogue towards a much more constructive tone. That is what the Science of Inner Strength is all about, revealing to people that being kind, being cooperative and that kind of thing are not weaknesses; they are strengths. For some an issue like climate change is the greatest threat; in the same way, with its creeping tenor, our loss of civility AND embracing of crassness, is truly our greatest threat.

Working together as people, we can solve virtually any challenge. Look at our own American cities, and the challenges of youth unrest, lack of meaningful employment and even violence. By rolling up our sleeves, we can solve these problems. This is where the Science of Inner Strength is so important, as it helps people develop an appropriate role. If we merely believe that all we have to do is shout our own opinion at the top of our lungs, without being appropriate, respect and responsive, then we are ineffective.

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La di da: Hitting a groove: Oh la di da…

What a day, it seemed. Yes out on the trail with brochures, one of the truly inspiring things of today; along with a few others. The feeling was really wonderful to get out there, on this day; to see other things prospectively hit their stride. I was explaining to a pal the other day how the past “nearly” twenty years were spent clearing the fields, and fertilizing the fields, and planting the fields; and now comes a harvest time. Although she was asking me about was it time to eat? It was an interesting question AND in my shoes, I just take in the process one glorious moment at a time.

There really must be an enjoyment of the process itself; as nothing truly lasts forever I suppose, good or bad. It is said that love lasts forever, and maybe it is the strongest influence in the universe; and that is also a part of the wonderful feeling, as at times I just feel like the warm glow of pure love itself. Love is part of the harvest for sure.

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ALL’S well that ends well; what an amazing statement, lol: AND what a day along those lines:

Truly a “fascinating” day. When a person has a mission, one on some level never really knows what course will appear on each day. Each day becomes like a work of art unto itself, paints on the canvas. I believe I painted a masterpiece today, with a tad of imperfection on the way out the door, but truly with a sense of masterpiece for sure. It actually came in an area that I thought was closed off; and yet, as I say, in the pursuit of a massive mission, you can never really never, I suppose.

On some level, the degree of opposition I have encountered speaks to the gargantuan nature of the goals and mission I have. I mean the opposition could not be so virulent but for such massive goals, I surmise; unless I was totally up the wrong tree, but then again, I crossed that bridge long ago, I would ascertain. So I can smile now; knowing that I pored my heart and soul into today; that it was a day enraptured with great causes. Amen, truly!

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A crucial day, on the value of letting go:

In any situation, there is an extremely important point; do ALL you can, AND then let it go. The answer, the outcome is often beyond us; and it is important that we develop our inner strength, so that we do not become overly attached to any one situation or at least particular outcome. Part of this was again, underscored for me, in reading a small book recently, where the writer explained the meaning of the word Amen.

Amen, does not merely mean the end of a prayer or something; its meaning has more to do with, having said all that, now it is in your hands. It is the beauty of something; we can do all of the work, and then the outcome, can still be fifty-fifty; perhaps it will work, perhaps it will not. There are higher powers and influences, then our mere efforts. I mean there are certain things you can achieve in more certain terms, but those to me, are more universal qualities, such as strength, trust, confidence. The final outcome can be out of our hands!

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Trusting the Wisdom of the Universe: What a day, so far:

Yes, Saturday, AND a day to catch up on some business stuff. Got a neat letter worked out mainly, and then the printer needs some TLC; so I will take it a step at a time. Speaking of which I did get some exercise on this relatively balmy, lol; day. Everything, even great things, take time to adjust to; as we are ALL human, and things just take time, and constant navigation, but for those time, we take for some R and R, which sounds like a wonderful idea at the moment.

Walking through the cold weather recently, among other things seems to have galvanized me to another level of the mission; so perhaps having a “great weekend;” as I was encouraged to do, is the thing of the moment. I am grateful for the wonderful things that I have; like me, they are in the main things endured, as well as to some degree replenished. Clients are pretty welcome at this point; even those the schedule is relatively full, there may be an opening, within the month or so.

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The Decency Revolution AND Dissecting Hatred:

Perhaps that will be the title of my next book, or something of the like. This is such a vast need to understand the hatred, and animosity of today; as well as for good people to rise up on some level, and set parameters of decency and civility in society. Hatred is the tool of the phenomenally weak, and phenomenally wounded. I get reminders of that on a virtual daily basis; to see the truly pathetic nature of those who are stuck in such a morass in their life that hating becomes their pastime, if not full-time vocation. For one, we as a society must understand that hatred, is indeed the apparatus of the truly weak, and the truly wounded.

Second, we must stop rewarding, artificial toughness that is really pettiness and meanness masquerading as strength. There is no luxury any longer; and little wiggle room for society to keep rewarding bizarre behavior and attitudes. Kindness, respect, even like the boy/girl scouts are not after thoughts, but essential ingredients, for life, community and business, in today’s challenging times. That’s ALL!

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Time for a break; AND ALL of that: A friend’s inquiry inspired, too!

Well, the day after Thanksgiving, it is kind of like, we have been pushing all year; time for some quiet time, and a few days of reflection, it seems, although things keep chugging along. A couple of notes on their way, to a foreign land, lol. In any event, for one, I am extremely thankful for what I have; and some quiet wisdom and support came to me, last night, after a terrific Thanksgiving feast; which I got to share.

This morning, too; a friend’s query solidified some goals that I have been working on, for seemingly eternity, lol. It did give me a wonderful opportunity to share my perspective to some degree on matters of importance, and for that too, I am extremely grateful. What is it that Mary Poppins sang: “It is a spoon full of sugar that helps the medicine go down…” Kindness, decency are the pillars of what we need moving forward; and they are such great turn-ons as well. Well peace, everybody, that is everybody rational; everybody else pays cash. Enjoy the day and weekend.

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A kind of “fascinating” day; learning more and more to hit the curve ball, lol:

It is a fascinating part of having a great goal that you will be thrown unbelievable twists and turns in how you handle things. What is really cool, is having the goal in the first place, as that totally allows you to ride through those twists and turns, the roller coaster of life, to hit the proverbial curve ball. Nothing is really as crucial as learning these skills, along with having the overarching goal. It is a brother Nietzsche is quoted: “He who has a why, can go through virtually any how.”

I pity in a way, people who do not have a “why” for their actions, holding on for┬ádear life, solely on the basis of their hatred and/or other form of negativity, which ultimately is not a strong enough reason to hang on. “Unfortunately” there is plenty of hatred, negativity in our world, and those who function solely out of disdain, fear and/or jealousy of another person. It is bizarre that some people go through life, without a true purpose; using words and/or substances to rationalize their persona.

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