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The Calm Revolution, in the heat

The Calm Revolution, in the heat

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A wonderful victory today for Calm Interventions methods

I received a copy today of a letter endorsed by twenty-two out of twenty-four local officials in my local community today. This was a wonderful affirmation of a specific mediation project, as well as Calm Interventions methods on a higher level, as it seemed to take on virtually an entire community to help produce a positive resolution. This was an amazing result on some level; and reflected one of my most intense efforts to date; as the stakes seemed high, and it was virtually a final proving ground of Calm Interventions methods; or at least shall we say an “awesome” opportunity; to use a word of one of my loved ones today.

So, I really would love to thank the world for your collective patience with me, as I have sought to return with perseverance to you. What a truly remarkable process. There seems to be another obstacle or something of the moment; who really knows, I cannot predict the future. I was able through this process to articulate my vision, philosophy and commitment on a broader community basis.

Amen.

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Somewhat miraculous today:

Opening up, in new and different ways. Gently seemed to close the door on something, and then in miraculous fashion, I not only got involved in, but actually enjoyed some paperwork I was postponing. Wonders, never cease. The weather was really nice today, after a huge storm recently, and some really muggy weather; it seems summer is winding down. I wonder if there is an end of summer day or two off for me; one step at a time as it goes, it is rather enjoyable here too.

I have pushed so hard over the past two, five, ten years that perhaps it is prudent to slow down, as I have a tad this summer, and really ALLOW ALL the good stuff to catch up with me; it has been a rather unfathomable piece of work. I am grateful for my effort, for the  faithful opposition, for the opportunities and challenges that presented themselves. I consider my life truly blessed AND that I seek to share. Please contact as you like. Thanks kindly, Jon Myers, The World’s Best Mediator, Newton!

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Mark that date: 11, 12, 13; the day we turned the beat around:

Yes, that is today’s today 11/12/13; the second last such date of this century; AND I feel blessed. CAVeX3rOv7c Gloria can do this one. I do feel like I turned the beat around today; not that I was not doing that ALL along, but today, will become and remain an extremely significant day, in the evolution of humankind. Turn the beat around people; decency is on the rise, hatred will be defeated, if not eradicated, in our life time.

What is worst is young people who hate; I mean people who have just picked up and accepted hate as a way of life. People: We are turning the beat around, slowly and surely; occasionally quickly. I mean how about people younger than me, who hate. Eeeek… lawyers younger than me, who hate; what a way of life to have accepted. The cynicism is ending; we shall overcome. Deep in my heart, oh yes, I do believe that decency shall prevail. I love you ALL; thank you to the Upper Falls, neighborhood of recent; we are starting to make music. Turn the…

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Well that was quite a whirlwind morning, with a great resolution at the end:

I had to focus a great deal over the last day or six, to get a response in. I went the extra mile early this morning, to find out some info and all of that; and get a word in edge wise. I am extremely grateful I could make that effort. When I returned to the office, it seems I got a confirmation of an interesting case that now seems resolved and closed.

It is extremely gratifying to bring closure to matters. The one I am referencing was an extremely challenging one; yet virtually everybody at some point in time returns to a human position, and functions from a stand point of common sense, and just some kind of equanimity.  There are still some who do not, but zillions of local hurdles have been addressed AND overcome.

I do really enjoy working with people, on matters great and small. All and all, my efforts are aimed to urge people into common sensible, respectful, even mutually beneficial positions. We are human beings for goodness sakes; most of us deserve winning resolutions.

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I am thankful for ALL I have: A great round of brochures…

even though, it was a small round, was great in this still fall weather. A number of little things seemed to have occurred today already and that seems terrific. One little thing at a time; sometimes that is all you can really endeavor to do. The great ideas in life get tested; sometimes severely, after all, what else is it that makes them great. It is not the desire itself; it is the actuation of the ideas, standing tall at critical moments.

One piece that seems relatively evident to me, is coming to a realization of psychopathic behavior that unfolded over a twenty-five plus period, in a scenario I endured, witnessed AND assessed. It seems a tad draining to focus on it, too much, as it is my view that “most people” want to see positive results for real, as well as constructive actions, but some either do not, or get so blinded by their own neurosis or misguided sense of superiority that they think they can treat a human being in the most inhumane of ways.

One’s too many!

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A great round of brochure distribution; took me to many nooks and crannies of Newton: Ending up at Free office, for the moment:

Wow, now I know (three words, ending in “ow”), why they call them the Newton Hills in the Boston Marathon. Distributing brochures is a true commitment AND a calling, if not a “cause” unto itself in a way. I went for a big round today. I am aiming to finish this batch, at least by next Thursday, for some “odd” reason. I am wondering if I need to directly and appropriately confront some big “bull” or if the universe will do it for me? That has been on my mind this morning. It is kind of an exploration into self, working and discovering alternative ways of handling situations; ALL tools of The World’s Best Mediator.

That reminds me, I have a limited number of brochures, without labels; and my pal at Staples may be able to assist with a new label for the remainder. I am looking to add the phrase “Boston Strong;” to the label, or something along those lines. That is the truly “odd” thing about The World’s Best Mediator, it is an outgrowth of Boston Strong too!

 

 

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Another element of abuse, to add to the list:

There is some kind of emotional or at least psychic connection from the abuser to the person being abused. In the abuser’s extremely sick, if not evil mind the abuser has some right for control or virtual ownership of the other person’s life.  This ownership and/or sense of control allows the person to set up a sadistic or even parasitic relationship with the person they are abusing.

All of the abuser’s lifeblood derives from this sadistic and/or parasitic relationship. The abuser has no moral life, no spiritual life, no even emotional life, other than essentially bloodthirsty “relationships” with others. The abuser has no positive sense of purpose, other than the one purported publicly. The image the abuser seeks to portray publicly is an utter sham, when looking at the underlying vulgar and “vile” nature of their actions.

In developing a ground-breaking case for the Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress, I have basically identified my biological parents Morey and Sondra Myers of Scranton, PA, and my ex-wife Margaret Carney of Cambridge, MA as having formed an Alliance of this intense abuse.

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Those who cannot conceptualize right from wrong:

Unfortunately there is a deep affliction in this world, with people who not only do not know right, from wrong, but also do wrong. I am not talking about thieves and others, whose actions although they are reprehensible, possibly on some level just do not know any better.

No, the subject of this post has to do with people who know better or to borrow a legal reference: “should have known better.” Narcissism and other associated personality disorders are the plague and at least the moral crime of this century. The reason such illnesses are so wretched is the grand air of posture that the perpetrators of such illnesses rain on this earth. The narcissists, the psychopaths, even those with borderline personality disorder pose to the world, an air about them, a position in society that reconciled with their underlying personality disorders and issues is a perverse misrepresentation to the outer world.

Internally the narcissist or psychopath or surely borderline can be as cruel as a person can be, while virtually always trying to look good, to the outer world.

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Consider yourself, best friends….and true note of Gratitude:

Consider yourself, one of the family, I’ve taken to you so strong, its clear we’re going to get along. What a terrific song. And on another note, I must convey my supreme gratitude to the universe for your love and patience of me, for giving me forty days to complete the most recent project. I was not sure I really would have forty days, but it turned out that I did. I am supremely thankful for having the time to develop a document and a piece of work that I believe will stand the test of time, perhaps for time immemorial.

So by all means, consider yourself best friends, and on and on. Just remember me as the guy walking through Watertown with a box; a box full or truth and dcoumentation, as the case may be. Yes, I did take a tad of a break just now, and I must say it was an extremely refreshing element. The universe has smiled kindly on me; even an old “aunt” looking me up. I am thankful for all I have.

Truly.

 

 

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