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I have encountered evil

As I reflect I feel the great value of my story and my life is that I have actually encountered evil; and not only not been defeated by it, but bring forward an amazing message due to that encounter. I will say I saw a quote recently that “people are not evil; systems are.” So I will not necessarily lay that heavy rap on any one person. Things happen, and it has to do with people making faulty choices, perhaps small ones one after another; and then it can be the combined energy mixed with others that create an evil dynamic. I must say, I only using evil to describe the most “indescribable.”

The thing about evil, is that it can become very confusing for those innocents who run into it; because a certain iteration of evil entails it posing as good and reasonable. People must be very strong in order to resist evil. People can be gullible and persuaded by things. So it has taken me unbelievable preparation and divine inspiration to realize that I have encountered evil.

Onward!

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I feel wonderful about that one…

Yes, today, I prepared and submitted an Assessment that seems a long time in coming. The Assessment seems a “remarkable” testament to resilience, AND perhaps gotten in, just in the nick of time. One never knows in this day and age. I was guided by higher influences it seems; so I am thankful that I could sustain so long, and in turtle like fashion edge out the rabbit by a nose. So for now, I believe I will breath a sigh or two of relief and great feeling and let it be for a tad. Sometimes it just the doing of something that brings you that great feeling. You cannot really control the outcome; and I have been dealing with seemingly super-human forces for a long time, with respect to how mightily they challenged me.

That is what the Science of Inner Strength is all about. It is having that inner resilience and commitment to overcoming all obstacles. It would be an Honor shall we say to work with you. Call the dedicated line and leave a confidential message. Thanks. 617-916-1858.

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Having taken on evil and emerged the better

That may be the calling card of my life. It seems on some level, I was called to actually take on societal evil, AND look it square in the eye. There is nothing in the world like battling true evil; I do not know everything, but I know that that is true. Evil will attempt to fold, spindle and mutilate reason, logic and decency.

It is true that I emerged much the better for that twenty one year process, not only alive to tell the story, but with an agenda to help the world as well. There are very few people, who could really go through the process that I did. It is truly a special badge of honor to have battled on that core level, and be positioned to deliver something of societal good. I am grateful for that entire process, as truly challenging at it was.

While parts of society do not want to hear the “evil” word; I feel like it is my responsibility to say that it exists, to define it, and develop remedies. Thanks, Jon

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Heroic, in the sense

That I have stood for the right thing, in the midst of an unfathomable storm, due to circumstances beyond my control; well for literally like “decades.” That is, I suppose, God’s way of testing us, to the depth of our beliefs. Today, I will once again declare victory. I mean, I stood so long and so hard for the positive things that I believe in, that it must be relatively clear that I would and will not give, so long as I have breath in me.

Maybe that was the nature of the test itself: To discover those beliefs AND hang on to them, irrespective of how wet, wild and rambunctious it got. Yesterday, in some ways was a metaphor, as I headed out in the midst of a blizzard towards a mailbox. Yes, I did get there. It reminds me of days, went I drove through tornado weather to get to my son, or walked in five hours of rain, and other extraordinary challenges to the elements. Today, I feel good about it; and if anyone ask, downright heroic!

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The new psychology

Underpinning the Science of Inner Strength is an understanding of what I would deem the real psychology of today. The real psychology does not have to do with assessments of peoples’ brains and thought processes as much, as it has to do with understanding the facets of deep narcissism and even psychopathic behavior.

The pandemic of hurtful behavior, negativity and hatred in this day and age, for one has to do with learned behavior, with respect to those in leadership teaching people that is okay or even good to be mean, which it surely is not. The other thing has to do with a related topic of a deep narcissism that upholds a vicious and narrow view. My work has focused on for one, understanding that prevalent narcissism, AND also getting at the roots of those who are so hurt or impaired, so as to adopt these relatively vicious views.

Without understanding these types of mindsets, which precious few in the areas of traditional psychology really do; people are not likely to understand what is going on in the culture.

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What a day, what a month, what a time of life

Today, I was influenced early in an interesting way, to even a more humanistic element. Sometimes, I feel like I am the very onion of life itself, being stripped down and down to my essence AND core. That core seems to based in a deep and profound compassion, along with determination to do what is best and well for my family and me, and surely society in general for that matter. Walking the walk is at the core as well; as I am in the main provided with no easy paths, or actually some occasionally easy paths.

Why not? After “decades” of pulling deep, deep efforts, aimed to develop this science. The Science of Inner Strength as it is called within the Myers family. I love being a Myers and I love my family; those are general thoughts and feelings, but at this moment they run deep. It is liberating to become your own person. The world has a hard time, with the one who will rise to the occasion. Yet, that is why he or she and I exist.

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Need I say more

TheWorld's Best Mediator

The World's Best Mediator, Jon Myers

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Further steps on the forgiveness path

One of the areas of my life I have put into the hopper of the Science, as in my life is one big laboratory, is that have walked further on the forgiveness path. When you cannot reach people by reason, and their behavior is so beyond the pale, I have delved into deep areas of love and forgiveness. I am working to find out if these very deep compassionate energies can be applied to help and reach those who are most disturbed in some ways.

If is “fascinating” to explore these thing and to put them into place on very deep levels. I mean not just peripheral applications, but can forgiveness reach someone who has lived many years in a narcissistic and/or disoriented way? I am past on some level seeing what the literature says, and really walking the walk and exploring in very emotionally challenging ways. I say emotionally challenging in the sense that it can be painful both to grow, and to walk into other peoples’ pain. Yet, I can see no other way to truly find out.

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Thankful to be me

Today, is a wonderful day of peace in some ways. The calm after the storm, literally here in New England and more generally in life, on some level. Some days and some times, you just must be thankful to be who you are, right where you are, without complaint or a sense of lack. This moment feels that way for me; trusting in higher influences and higher purposes. There is no question that my journey to address inequality in our divorce system, to discover the Science of Inner Strength, to work to establish myself as The World’s Best Mediator are wonderful efforts. Yet, sometimes, I just must be me, and grateful. To feel gratitude and appreciation is a very high mountain to sit atop on this journey called life.

I am thankful that I have worked as much as I have and grateful too, that I can take some quiet moments to pause and reflect or more so, just be me. I am happy to say that I enjoy being me, the creative process and all of that. Just breathe.

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A wonderful quote

“Beautiful souls are shaped by ugly experiences.” –Matshona Dhliwayo

I love that quote and that kind of thinking. A few analogies I have read, compare this also the process of a caterpillar becoming a butterfly. It seems to me that type of deep and yes, painful experience is the main way to develop that true diamond like beauty, ala a diamond from coal as well. It is that unfathomable experience that causes a person to either fold, as one might understandably do, or find that inner strength to not only withstand, but use that very experience itself to morph and transform into a higher being than they were before. That is the core for me; finding one’s purpose through the Science of Inner Strength, one is able to develop the resourcefulness to essentially handle any situation.

It is truly about finding that inner light within us. That inner light makes us a champion and able to shine brightly in a world that needs people to shine positively and brightly. I love the work that has been done, and am grateful.

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