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Whenever possible do not go into court; a virtual living hell:

A call, from a reasonably minded prospective client brought home a wonderful point today, virtually reminding me of why I began this company thirteen years ago. Whenever possible people must not go into court; especially familial situations where there is any possibility of not doing so. One of my points with the Magic 6 hour x $600/hour Assessment is that it can be worth $75,000 or even $100, 000 with the seventh hour on the way. For people who would go into court that is an easy one. The moment that two parties go into court in innocent fashion, it is with a combination of emotional, time and financial costs easily just to start $50,000 each; as the current state of Family Court in America, AND surely here in Massachusetts is a virtual living hell.

People will be shocked at how far from our ideals, going into our family courts can be, especially when dealing with your most precious assets: Children, home, finances, and ALL the rest. The experience of Calm Interventions Inc. lets people know how destructive such a course can be.

www.calminterventions.com www.theworldsbestmediator.com

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A wondrous turn of events:

Who’d have thunk that just by going about my normal business today, answers would appear along the way. It seems that the answer to the brochure question, is to continue to distribute the ones I have; AND add the stickers if and when I get them. My local market, did me a terrific little favor in posting one in their prominent display case; the orange dove is out, and about, not to mention at a local Starbuck’s as well.

In any event, then to my Watertown mini-office, and my friend Shawn, gave me a terrific little tip for the stickers I am in the process of creating. It seemed like a glorious energy was in the air. I am ready for the orange dove to soar, it seems. Perhaps even tomorrow, or rest the week-end or we shall see. Shawn indicated to emphasize the free nature of the sample. Did, I mention that people; you get a 10 minute free sample of the Magic Assessment; that is in essence a $100 value. Also look at:

world’sbestmediator@thebestmediator on Twitter. College football, or tennis?

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How sweet it is:

Floral Street/Avenue

Floral Street/Avenue

Back on the brochure trail. Today it was out on Floral Street/Avenue again in Newton Highlands; a wonderful run. It has been an unfathomable piece of work to get back out on the brochure trail. Let’s just say that the opposition to progress can be extremely intense sometimes. I do not know everything, but I know that forward progress, is ultimately stronger than the forces of resistance.

A major chunk of work was done, in recent days/weeks to overcome some intense resistance yes; AND I am extremely grateful that I did not give up. There is a message with this brochure; it is a wake-up call for society on some level, and I am just grateful that I am in position to deliver it, by land and air, lol. Anyway, it is getting time for lunch. I am wondering if I need to resume Twitter again, or let that one rest; whether to do more brochures today, although I have some plans for the evening. It would remind me of old football two a days. Once is enough.

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What a great day; I appreciate it:

Got out into Boston today; the city had some wonderful energy around Copley Square and then downtown. It ended with an extremely nice ride back; not to mention it began with an exceptional act of kindness towards me on the ride there. So, I am blessed; and on some level I have thrown a certain yoke off of my neck; and perhaps, in little ways there was nice steps and rewards along the way.

My commitment, in the main, is to help humanity; AND in the main, I have developed a philosophy, a science, and maybe even most important, an extremely nice persona to carry it out. It is a rare bird, who can like the cream rising to the top, rise to this point, with a relatively pure agenda, not to mention requisite skill to help humanity. Lord knows, we need it on many levels; and yet the degree to which bad news is reported cannot ultimately obfuscate the day to day decency of some many people in our country, and for that matter the world. Thank you Boston!

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Happy and productive: Thank God almighty free at last, free at last, free at last:

What a day; what a week even. I was extremely patient in searching for the right path, with an extremely vexing situation; and at the last moment, I made a decision. Crucial to the decision is that I trust my own peace of mind; my own thought process in the end. The facets of emotional and psychological abuse run deep within society; and it really will be a tall task of the twenty-first century for we, basically kind and considerate human beings to figure out how to address the rise of psychopathic and narcissistic behavior.

I have been presented with a deep coal mine of such experience that I probably can and will spend a lifetime turning them into diamonds. You know the adage, diamonds were coal under pressure. Emotional and psychological abuse essentially provides an opportunity for the person being abused to truly find their inner strength, using The Science of Inner Strength, and overcoming that abuse. It is truly sickening the number of people who find their perverse sense of “joy” in being mean to others. Happy Week-end!

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The concept of the year, if not the millennium: The buck stops here: Emotional Nazism!

Yes, I do believe the process I have observed and assessed, actually rises to the level of what I deem: “Emotional Nazism.” Some peoples’ behavior in our culture and in our society has come to the point of that degree of extremism, intolerance, utter indifference and cruelty to our fellow human being. You surely see it for one, within our legal system; where lawyers pursue making a buck, at the virtual expense of other peoples’ lives. I have read a statement along the lines that “everything the Nazis did was legal.”

The great majority of our country AND our culture must be extremely vigilant at the seething, slow, slippery slope of some of the cruelty and meanness in our culture today. I have observed in its most crass forms, and to the degree that people will work to strip other human beings of their very identity, along with things like our children; then on the most extreme AND outrageous places in society, we have reached emotional Nazism. The extremely threatening thing about this form of Nazism is its deception.

Jon

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Well that was quite a whirlwind morning, with a great resolution at the end:

I had to focus a great deal over the last day or six, to get a response in. I went the extra mile early this morning, to find out some info and all of that; and get a word in edge wise. I am extremely grateful I could make that effort. When I returned to the office, it seems I got a confirmation of an interesting case that now seems resolved and closed.

It is extremely gratifying to bring closure to matters. The one I am referencing was an extremely challenging one; yet virtually everybody at some point in time returns to a human position, and functions from a stand point of common sense, and just some kind of equanimity.  There are still some who do not, but zillions of local hurdles have been addressed AND overcome.

I do really enjoy working with people, on matters great and small. All and all, my efforts are aimed to urge people into common sensible, respectful, even mutually beneficial positions. We are human beings for goodness sakes; most of us deserve winning resolutions.

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Mediation is for adults: Even though I held my own with one hand tied behind my back, as it stands:

It really is becoming more and more apparent on some level. The legal process almost becomes like children having a food fight, the way most people conduct things. Attack what they perceive to be the weakness of the other party; refuse to hear the other point of view. Man o live, it sure seems almost like a game for children.

On the other hand, mediation is for adults. Both parties must be able to recognize their is a larger goal, other than merely their own interest. Each person’s interest is important, but so is something called the greater good. It seems that many attorneys I have run into focus solely on their interest and money. Mediation as I am indicating requires a degree of maturity beyond that; it requires people to want to get to a better place, other than just “beating” the other person.

Adults of the world unite; throw off your chains, bullies behaving in a childish manner will not prevail. True intelligence, respect and yes adult maturity will lead our way forward. Children, time for bed. Thanks.

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I am thankful for ALL I have: A great round of brochures…

even though, it was a small round, was great in this still fall weather. A number of little things seemed to have occurred today already and that seems terrific. One little thing at a time; sometimes that is all you can really endeavor to do. The great ideas in life get tested; sometimes severely, after all, what else is it that makes them great. It is not the desire itself; it is the actuation of the ideas, standing tall at critical moments.

One piece that seems relatively evident to me, is coming to a realization of psychopathic behavior that unfolded over a twenty-five plus period, in a scenario I endured, witnessed AND assessed. It seems a tad draining to focus on it, too much, as it is my view that “most people” want to see positive results for real, as well as constructive actions, but some either do not, or get so blinded by their own neurosis or misguided sense of superiority that they think they can treat a human being in the most inhumane of ways.

One’s too many!

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It is the degree of hatred, that is so pronounced:

While I assess an unfathomable pattern of emotional/psychological abuse, one astounding AND “fascinating” element is the degree of hatred involved. I mean there are different levels of hatred that a person can have, I suppose. What I have discovered and encountered is a degree of hatred so shocking that it virtually defies description. I suppose you cannot really let a sibling, even if younger, off of the hook because the person, is not a child, indeed he has lived in one case for fifty-three years.

This younger sibling, while influenced or not brought a degree of hatred that they can write about for centuries to come. It is startling the emergence of irrational hatred in society. I suppose that is what is so important about ALL of my work; society as a whole must stop this phenomenon of irrational hatred. People who believe they can on some miniscule basis just develop hatred towards another human being and inflict their pain on another, must be exposed and appropriately stopped, AND indeed held “accountable.”

The Ivory Towers encourages this hatred. Happy Birthday.

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