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Profoundly, a sense of a better world

That is my vision, my life, my work; that of a better world. There is such a practical and moral mandate in our world, especially for our younger people, to create a sense that’s our world, can be a better place. There is so much negativity that not only does our world need it, but our young people, may not have been touched by that sense of optimism that is necessary to uphold and uplift society. That is my work, that is Calm Interventions work; that is the work and world of The World’s Best Mediator creating a better planet.

Coming from our inner strength, aligns us with our goodness, our sense of wanting to do well, and even our commonality. Most of us, want a better world, and we need those people and philosophies that will uplift us. I am grateful that I have been able to come this far, in the development of a philosophy. Today being, July 4, 2018, among other things, I convey wonderful appreciation to our dear United State of America, on our 242nd birthday. Happy birthday!

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Thankful to be me

Today, is a wonderful day of peace in some ways. The calm after the storm, literally here in New England and more generally in life, on some level. Some days and some times, you just must be thankful to be who you are, right where you are, without complaint or a sense of lack. This moment feels that way for me; trusting in higher influences and higher purposes. There is no question that my journey to address inequality in our divorce system, to discover the Science of Inner Strength, to work to establish myself as The World’s Best Mediator are wonderful efforts. Yet, sometimes, I just must be me, and grateful. To feel gratitude and appreciation is a very high mountain to sit atop on this journey called life.

I am thankful that I have worked as much as I have and grateful too, that I can take some quiet moments to pause and reflect or more so, just be me. I am happy to say that I enjoy being me, the creative process and all of that. Just breathe.

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Entitlement as the Opposite of Fairness

Narcissism and that kind of psychological process has an element to it, which indicates that a person has an “entitlement” to abuse other people. When I say entitlement, I am not talking about people who need them receiving benefits or that kind of thing. I am talking about people who falsely portray that they have the upper hand in relationships and some God-given right to act abusively and even superior to others. That kind of entitlement is not just a chip on one’s shoulder it is like a psychological axe that people use against others.

When the dust settles that kind of entitlement is the opposite of the premise of our society as a whole; and really a requisite of the human condition: Fairness. When people abuse or need to have a falsely achieved upper hand in a situation due  to their entitlement; they are essentially saying that they cannot compete or function in a meritorious or fair situation. In our times, many fair-minded people are taken advantage of by this bullying sense of entitlement. Fairness is what we deserve!

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What a day, what a year; what a twenty one years, lol

Yes, it is has been a rather unfathomable run, in the development of the life and work of The World’s Best Mediator. To the degree that Sir Isaac Newton demonstrated that “every action has an equal and opposite reaction;” it has been a rather astonishing real life version of turning lemons into lemonade, with ALL due respect in amazing fashion. Today, I seemed to stumble into a culminating piece of the past twenty plus years of work, and sent out a communication along those lines.

I am enormously grateful that God, people and life have supported me in this journey. Ah, now I recall the word that I wanted to use with respect to equal and opposite is “indescribable.” A loved one, once wrote about some indescribable circumstances as they pertain to our challenges; AND the equal and opposite journey in response was fully “indescribable” as well. Today, I can fully make that statement of the nature of the journey. I am glad that larger influences have blessed me with the responsibility of this journey. Thank you one and all.

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What a day, what a week, wow.

A little technical breakdown, in a device set off a relatively wonderful chain of events, leading to an acquisition here and there, that represented major improvements for a relatively minor outlay. So, I am truly grateful, towards the end of the day, AND the end of the week. The cold weather was believe it or not, mostly an inspiration to run around, with a tad of the seasonal feeling in the air; and the tougher the circumstances the stronger the commitment to the goals and forward progress.

That is why I relish the grit of hard times, because once you accept the deeper purpose, you can just feel the circumstances doing God’s work on you; as well as giving you that opportunity to put the stake in the ground for your commitments and sense of a purpose. So, it is a wonderful day in that regard, and I needed to assert myself a great deal this week. The efforts do seem like they are paying off. it is great to have a dream, a vision and to challenge yourself enormously.

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Quite a day for a Monday already; brochures out, as well

on the trail

on the trail

I am grateful that I have a philosophy, a science to get out to the world, in the Science of Inner Strength to spread, I must keep myself focused with that. The brochures are surely one way, and perhaps I can begin to up the distribution of those, even though it is a holiday week, I am excited; it is exhilarating to get out the brochures, even as the weather starts to change, for the cooler/colder. It is kind of like with all of the obstacles, focusing on the next steps, and putting my heart into that distribution, especially with a batch of revised letterhead on the way.

Thanksgiving week, and I can count my blessings for having this philosophy, this positive energy that I can spread with the  world. It is a blessing to have something like this. I am also working on the psychology of unraveling hatred, what makes people hate, and can it be stopped? My work as I say is on a higher level, with one bit of this new printing, talking “humanity.”

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A mediation miracle

I got the feeling today; that an Assessment that I did in a long-running mediation, may have hit a real breakthrough point, in a rather bombshell way. One of the theories that I have worked on, has to do with very intricate, long-running familial patterns of behavior AND even a sense as to how familial dynamics can change dramatically when a family member marries; where a new members joins a family, and a new familial dynamic can unfold as well. Patterns of behavior can play out over years and “decades;” even generations where people do not really know what is going on, other than there is a huge shift in the familial dynamic as a whole.

Today, when I had virtually stopped thinking about a situation, a rather bombshell theory can to my mind, and I acted upon it, in generating written material to affirm my thought process. It was quite a striking revelation, AND where previous theories that I had advanced were close to this; this one seemed to galvanize a ton of previous work. Truly a “fascinating” process!

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The importance of gratitude today

letting something go, for a while, reintroduced me to the power of gratitude again. Allowing things greater than ourselves introduces deeper understanding of wonderful concepts. I am referring to the sense that there are times, when we simply cannot handle and solve ALL problems with merely our own understandings. It does depend to some degree on our belief systems, with respect to if and whether we believe in something greater than ourselves.

Some may call it God, “the universe,” “a presence” or human qualities themselves such as patience and things kind of thing; if and when we allow these kinds of things into our world, our capacity to solve situations can be enhanced, not to mention “trust” itself as a quality. I allowed some space in a situation for me, and may well continue to do so, and an enhanced sense of gratitude in general, as well as potentially pertaining to a situation arose. Being grateful and appreciating what we have, to some is a magnet to attracting more of those kinds of things into our lives. I appreciate today!

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A wonderful expression hit home today: “Rejoice in your trials…”

I have many sayings on my wall, inspirational and that kind of thing. One really hit home today, as I was sitting waiting for much longer than expected in a somewhat annoying situation today. It was totally out of my control; there was some loud music near by. As I waited and waited, all of a sudden, I thought of one of the sayings on my wall, something like: “Rejoice in your trials. If you are being challenged, you are being perfected and have a divine purpose so rejoice.” From that point onward a divine peace came over me, I because somewhat joyous, and soon my wait was over.

It was I suppose finding that sweet spot in any situation that was so inspiring. If we give it enough time, we can find that joyous path or at least moment in virtually every situation. I feel blessed. It is wonderful to find that peaceful place within yourself; wherever you get your inspiration. I am rejoicing in my challenges at the moment, and it is a wonderful feeling. Thanks for today.

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Thank goodness for an amazing step today or even leap of faith…that is

I took a leap of faith on the forgiveness front today. I did get a tiny nudge from the universe I must say, with profound impact. Sometimes we must consider the realm of possibilities good and bad, to help us narrow our choices. Sometimes it is by running into a wall or at least a road that one would rather not go down, we learn what our priorities and choices need to be. The work of Calm Interventions is to help people learn to identify their true feelings and make the choices that they really want to make.

Many times people have really positive feelings for one another; yet they also have hurt feelings and react from their hurt. Most people really want to be together when all is said and done; yet we have built in so many impediments to our clear and calm discussion that we do not identify our true interests. That is where the advanced work of Calm Interventions and working on understanding forgiveness and other elements on really deep levels can come in to play.

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