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A cool day, in spite of the heat, lol

Today, was pretty cool. I put some finishing touches on some work that I have been savoring. I enjoy the process of production, even down to the nitty gritty details. Yes, it seemed like a happy day at that. In fact, finishing this phase of a project, just swooped on up to me. I was not really planning on it; at the moment. It was kind of like a divine inspiration, seemed to grab me, and onto it, I was. I was kind of amazed, as I have been working hard, and did not outwardly seem to have the energy to nail this today. AND then, there’s God, as the saying would go.

So off I went, and it was pure grit, I suppose, as it was hot; and as I say, perhaps I have been working too hard. Still in retrospect; it was like a breeze, in completing a number of the tasks that beckoned. One intense critic, used the phrase “happy and productive.” There is little or no doubt that I was in a happy and productive zone.

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No matter, which way he is pointing, still the best, lol

The World's Best Mediator, Jon Myers

The World's Best Mediator

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“Oh, sweet Pea, oh won’t you dance with me…?”

Great old song, no? Wow, even better, I just found out that was sung by Tommy Roe; he of the “Dizzy” fame. Dizzy, was number one for four or more weeks in a row.–Roe, row…, love it. Oh, sweet Pea, look it up folks. Anyway, it is that kind of ending for this week. Got a piece pertaining to Calm Interventions that could be the clincher. I am psyched; it could take the world by a storm, something we need right at the right time. Did some grind it out stuff relating to the Science today, too. Just had to let it go, and see where it goes. Read a wonderful book by Gabby Bernstein, about “The universe has your back;” and it too, seemed very timely with respect to the entire topic of trusting God and/or the universe any and ALL of what you believe.

So, I am feeling some juice and inspiration at this particular moment. It is  twenty-one plus years of work; and then let it go, see how it all unfolds. I am grateful for today.

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A miraculous set of connections, yay

Just some little stuff to do today; AND the universe seemed to be cooperating in wonderful style. I am grateful, for the momentum that seemed to be behind my back today. In the midst, I came to a wonderful line as well, about a mediation scenario that has challenged me for quite some time. This could be a breakthrough in the old Calm Interventions techniques, as the crucial factor entails finding the roots of the conflict.

Once the roots of conflict are discovered then a couple of things can happen: 1) Everyone else who is feeding into the energy of the leader can be aware of it, and presumably stop; 2) A picture and/or a better version of the situation can arise to replace the highly conflictual one. True to Science of Inner Strength tenets, most people do not inherently want to be at conflict. There are personality types that crave and seek out conflict; but most people would rather live at peace, given the opportunity.

This weekend can be significant, with respect to how solid this understanding is on my part.

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I feel wonderful about that one…

Yes, today, I prepared and submitted an Assessment that seems a long time in coming. The Assessment seems a “remarkable” testament to resilience, AND perhaps gotten in, just in the nick of time. One never knows in this day and age. I was guided by higher influences it seems; so I am thankful that I could sustain so long, and in turtle like fashion edge out the rabbit by a nose. So for now, I believe I will breath a sigh or two of relief and great feeling and let it be for a tad. Sometimes it just the doing of something that brings you that great feeling. You cannot really control the outcome; and I have been dealing with seemingly super-human forces for a long time, with respect to how mightily they challenged me.

That is what the Science of Inner Strength is all about. It is having that inner resilience and commitment to overcoming all obstacles. It would be an Honor shall we say to work with you. Call the dedicated line and leave a confidential message. Thanks. 617-916-1858.

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Progress is being made, yippee

Check out www.theworldsbestmediator.com

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The old saying, if you cannot bring the mountain to Muhammed, then bring Muhammed to the mountain

There seems to be a dramatic breakthrough in thought here. The old compassionate sense of compassionate genius, from the Science of Inner Strength Honor BTW. I finally realized on a deeper level that people who really act out, are on some level suffering from deep pain. While the temptation is to try to hold them accountable for their behavior, people with personality disorder types of issues have a very limited capacity to recognize the emotional repercussions of their behavior.

The crucial element, is once again, developing this “nearly” infinite compassionate sense that these people are functioning from a source of pain, and really and truly cannot do any better on some level. In this regard, by beginning to see and accept people based upon their limitations, while still honoring our love for them, through compassion, we can prospectively improve the situation. If nothing else, we surely are improving ourselves, because I/we have risen to another level, with respect to not reacting to hurtful things, but by first understanding these folks limitations. Then we can possibly influence these folks positively too.

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It has been a while, little blog, whew

So this week, I made major strides in getting the mailing that I am working on to fruition. The design and writing process, “oddly” took even months, and now it is getting to the point of mailing. What  a piece of work it was; and I am in the main happy about it. There was a twist and turn, even in working on the process of mailing, which came as a tad of a surprise. Yet those venerable tools of patience and perseverance, along with trusting helped to iron out that wrinkle so it seems.

Also, given that the essence of that mailing has to do with the Science of Inner Strength Honor, I offered the first two slots other than me; to some folks who I felt could use it, out of a sense of love. So that was another very positive step as well. It has surely been a process of twenty-one years, and perhaps now, I can take a step back and admire the effort, before moving on to the next stages. We shall see. Thank you.

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The week that was

Wow, what a week. I made a wonderful progress on a letter that I am writing for broad circulation pertaining to the Science of Inner Strength. Then in a ground-breaking mediation situation, I seemed to have made a breakthrough as we speak, or I write as we shall say. It is has been a time of enormous challenge/opportunity for the Science of Inner Strength, the World’s  Best Mediator and the whole nine yards. For some reason, I have really been given a sacred mission to fight unfathomable not right forces. That is my real proving ground.

In certain things in life, it is not for me to question, but just to step up to the plate and take on what is required of me. It is a remarkable story and true trail of events. I must smile a bit; as I was a relatively ordinary fellow, as I like to say AND then lightening struck more than twenty-one years ago. I guess, I am on the right track with a letter that I have drafted. Phew, time for a break.

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Explorations in human behavior: The Science continues: Gently Into the realms of Narcissistic behavior

It is a moment to reflect on the work that has been done, specifically in developing further understandings pertaining to narcissistic, even psychopathic behavior. The Science of Inner Strength has its jumping off point, its pushing back point from those elements of that very extreme behavior. Narcissistic mentalities AND behaviors entail essentially a very limited perspective on the world, rather one dimensional. It is almost like a door into a dark room that is not fully open.

The question among others that I am researching is essentially can a narcissist be reached in any meaningful kind of way? Is there are way to penetrate through the veneer and walls of that narrow perspective to reach a person at a point of empathy? My theory is that every human being has needs; every human being has a point from which they can and must be reached. It takes an incredibly patient amount of gently working with and attempting to break down that nihilistic narrow viewpoint.

I am not certain that it can be done. It would be groundbreaking to do so.

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