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In my best moments: “My goal is to turnaround the tenor of society” :)

That is my goal, on some level; to see if I can shift the mindset, somehow of our great nation and wonderful world, towards kindness, decency and inner strength. Inner strength being that notion that prosperity, must be married to purpose. I am all for, people earning lots of money and all of that; it just must be correlated to a positive purpose. My experience is so profound; that I actually believe I have a shot to change the national psyche in some ways. The main aim being to moves us away from this crassness and faulty notions of meanness being strength.

True strength, inner strength resides in a positive purpose, respect and teamwork with and for others. For me, it entails reaching within our psyche and causing a shift and a recognition that we can be successful, without being mean, indeed by being kind and considerate. It is ambitious, and yet that is where I reach for the stars and prospectively settle for the moon. I have encountered so much unfairness and false strength that I am inspired. Jon

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Thank you, thank you, thank you: A wonderful philosophy: The Science of Inner Strength…

I feel grateful for the small things sometimes; those little things that fall into place, saving us a step here or there. In the best sense, my life and work is about creating a positive philosophy, of imagination and energy, helping us as human beings see the positive, the constructive ways of interacting. It has been quite a piece of work to create such a philosophy, AND now similarly a challenge to represent it, in ways that people can understand and utilize.

I received a little communication that could have nice repercussions yesterday, so we shall see. I aim to establish this place of positivity that will attract others, and send a positive signal out into the world. A world needs positive communications and ways now. Potentially I have done a significant part; we shall see how it ALL plays out. I have a seemingly significant birthday coming up; and yet my spirit, feels very young. I suppose that is one of my secrets, to maintain that inner child and boyish fascination with life, even while maturing well. Thank you.

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“A problem free philosophy”

Yes, like Hakuna Matata; the Science of Inner Strength is a wonderful philosophy and way of being that can help us move in a right direction. I am at my best, in some ways, when I embody that philosophy on many levels, of expression. I got some brochures out, communicated with close ones, did some writing and now blogging, it is a wonderful time to express the philosophy.

Summing up the Science of Inner Strength in a few words, it is about finding our inner strength, our authenticity, our true purpose, all in one. Then it becomes a matter of developing the mechanisms to bring that inner strength forward in appropriate and assertive ways. Implicit, as well; is a matter of trusting in our goodness, as an individual and an organization. That is okay for us to do well, as long as we are aligned with a greater purpose as well. That is the beauty of the Science of Inner Strength, finding that virtually divine sense within us, believing we have a right AND opportunity to accomplish great things. Thanks.

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“What a day for a day dream,” lol: Sincerely, the triumph is in the struggle :)

The journey continues, what unfathomable perseverance, this ALL entails. I am grateful that I can keep my focus AND sense of purpose, as guiding lights through this amazing story. It is said the opposition is greatest the nearest the goal, we shall see. Outcome, is not necessarily in my hands; only the effort. Speaking of which, it was rather miraculous today, how some things go done unexpectedly. I was not planning to finish a project, and then whoosh, some energy came in, and next thing you know, this stage was done.

Not to mention, I got a piece that I was working on delivered today, and I got a real kick our of it. It had a nice tone, with a little oomph at the end. So I was really happy about that as well. A friend once gave me a card, saying that the “triumph was in the struggle:” although he also wrote, in the victory as well. I will take both pieces. To the degree that the triumph is in the struggle; I have rocked the world, lol.

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Ah, little blog; back to our old friend: Trust: A great way to fly

To me, one of the true shifts in human consciousness or mindset that we need, has to do with leaving more fearing elements behind, and learning to trust. This process is a constant work in progress. Fear, is so ingrained into the human condition on some level. Historically we can see why; as we were originally born to a planet, without knowing heads or tails, and living in strain of survival.

On some level, our species has evolved quite a bit, although we surely have our work cut out for us. We live in homes, with electricity, to not greatly fear attacks from animals and the like, and have excellent technology. So, we have gotten to know our planet a little better over the course of human history. While guarantees, will virtually never be a part of the human condition: Death and taxes aside, lol; trusting ourselves and one another can become a much greater part of our shared sense of humanity. Trusting takes the edge off of things, and ALLOWS us to believe in higher influences, AND live peacefully.

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Saw an eagle this morning

What a wonderful day so far. Discovered a nature area near home; and even ran across an Eagle. I first caught a glimpse of it, off of the water; and then I spoke with a new friend Kyle, who pointed out to me that the Eagle was sitting in a tree across the water. That was pretty sterling, being so close to the city and seeing an eagle!

Such moments are very refreshing in terms, of life itself, before I suppose getting to the work. It is great to remember that life does exist, aside from the work as well. Such moments, have been kind of rare for me; and I actually believe now that I think about it, it will be wonderful to meld in more of the real life. I saw an affirmation from the late Louise Hay this morning, which encouraged me towards nature, and the magic was truly there. Well, let’s see what the next part of the day reveals; as I have some writing to do, possibly, although the notion of enjoyment is great too.

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Being thankful for what we have: It is great to remember: April 20, 2018

It is a lot of work, and a lot of non-work, to just be present in the moment, being thankful for what  I have, we have, all of us collectively have. Having so much of my life and work, being based in inducing positive change; one most be careful and conscious to appreciate that which we have. It is also essential to understand the process of human change is a challenging and even slow one at times.

Fear is underneath a lot of our resistance and that kind of thing; all of us, in one way or another cling to some of the things we have and do; even if at times, we would better to let go a tad, at least most of us, lol. Ah the nature of human existence. Being grateful is an act of confidence, if not victory itself. Appreciation can bring us to another level, and in essence declare that we are not acting with fear. I am thankful for my life; just as it is, in this moment. Wow, that feeling is “indescribable.” Jon

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Quite a remarkable day

It seems like a lot of things are feeling like on some level, they are coming to fruition. Nothing massive as of yet; just a feeling and an ease of things and definitely some good results in certain areas. I am grateful I could work hard today, and for most of this week and the previous week. I went to the wall on a project; AND I was wondering, if I should keep on going at that pace. Fortunately, I believe I decided to slow down and catch up, and it seemed like a wonderful decision.

I had the notion in mind, of running through the finish line, and perhaps it was that kind of thing, on a small level, and even a greater scale. Time will tell. It is just a feeling of championship, after putting myself proverbially out on a limb. As the saying goes, because that is where the fruit is. So, living with uncertainty is a regular part of everything. Even in reaching our goals, perhaps nothing is finally done.

So enjoy the moment. Happy holidays.

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No human being can be abused

It dawns on me, as my work continues; that one of the cornerstones of my life, is the notion that no human being should or can be abused. Abuse occurs, in many forms, and on some level is prevalent in our culture as a whole. We need an adjustment, a reworking of our national psyche, to truly understand that being cruel and mean to others, is not strength; indeed those types of behaviors are weaknesses, ultimately. So much of my life and work, stems from the notion of not wanting to see others abused in any way, be it physically, emotionally, legally, sexually or in any way.

Abuse, in its rawest sense, is about one human being perversely taking advantage of another; using hurtful and hateful tactics to act upon their own mental disturbances, and inflicting pain on others. I wish at times, that I could develop a metric for emotional abuse and emotional distress, to show to people, what is acceptable, and what is not; AND for that matter what abuse is: The opposite is creating a better world!

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