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The old saying, if you cannot bring the mountain to Muhammed, then bring Muhammed to the mountain

There seems to be a dramatic breakthrough in thought here. The old compassionate sense of compassionate genius, from the Science of Inner Strength Honor BTW. I finally realized on a deeper level that people who really act out, are on some level suffering from deep pain. While the temptation is to try to hold them accountable for their behavior, people with personality disorder types of issues have a very limited capacity to recognize the emotional repercussions of their behavior.

The crucial element, is once again, developing this “nearly” infinite compassionate sense that these people are functioning from a source of pain, and really and truly cannot do any better on some level. In this regard, by beginning to see and accept people based upon their limitations, while still honoring our love for them, through compassion, we can prospectively improve the situation. If nothing else, we surely are improving ourselves, because I/we have risen to another level, with respect to not reacting to hurtful things, but by first understanding these folks limitations. Then we can possibly influence these folks positively too.

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